diff --git a/plugins/fun_command_play/main.py b/plugins/fun_command_play/main.py
index 512c7b8..65be61a 100644
--- a/plugins/fun_command_play/main.py
+++ b/plugins/fun_command_play/main.py
@@ -414,7 +414,7 @@ class FunCommandPlayPlugin(MessagePluginInterface):
 
         scope_type, scope_id, _ = self._normalize_scope(message)
         content = str(message.get("content", "") or "").strip()
-        event_key = self._extract_event_key(message)
+        event_key, _ = self._resolve_effective_event(message)
         session_key = scope_id or str(message.get("sender", "") or "")
 
         return self.rule_service.match_rule(
@@ -425,6 +425,30 @@ class FunCommandPlayPlugin(MessagePluginInterface):
             session_key=session_key,
         )
 
+    def _resolve_current_wxid(self, message: Dict[str, Any]) -> str:
+        """解析当前机器人 wxid。"""
+        # 优先使用已注入的 self.bot（主流程），没有则回退 message['bot']（兜底）。
+        bot_obj = self.bot if getattr(self, "bot", None) else message.get("bot")
+        return str(getattr(bot_obj, "wxid", "") or "").strip()
+
+    def _resolve_effective_event(self, message: Dict[str, Any]) -> Tuple[str, Dict[str, str]]:
+        """解析最终可用事件。
+
+        关键约束：
+        - 对于拍一拍（PAT），仅当“被拍者是机器人自己”才返回 PAT。
+        - 其他拍一拍场景（用户拍用户）返回空事件，避免误触发规则。
+        """
+        pat_meta = self._parse_pat_event_meta(message)
+        if pat_meta.get("event_key") == "PAT":
+            current_wxid = self._resolve_current_wxid(message)
+            patted_username = str(pat_meta.get("pat_pattedusername", "") or "").strip()
+            if current_wxid and patted_username and patted_username == current_wxid:
+                return "PAT", pat_meta
+            return "", {}
+
+        # 非结构化 PAT 场景走原有兜底识别。
+        return self._extract_event_key(message), {}
+
     def can_process(self, message: Dict[str, Any]) -> bool:
         """判断是否可处理。
 
@@ -455,9 +479,9 @@ class FunCommandPlayPlugin(MessagePluginInterface):
         # 先做一次匹配并塞入 message，process_message 阶段直接复用，减少重复计算。
         matched_rule = self._find_match_rule(message)
         if matched_rule:
-            event_meta = self._parse_pat_event_meta(message)
+            event_key, event_meta = self._resolve_effective_event(message)
             message["_fun_rule_match"] = matched_rule
-            message["_fun_event_key"] = str(event_meta.get("event_key") or self._extract_event_key(message))
+            message["_fun_event_key"] = str(event_key or "")
             message["_fun_event_meta"] = event_meta
             return True
         return False
@@ -548,7 +572,7 @@ class FunCommandPlayPlugin(MessagePluginInterface):
         event_key = str(message.get("_fun_event_key", "") or "")
         event_meta = message.get("_fun_event_meta")
         if not isinstance(event_meta, dict):
-            event_meta = self._parse_pat_event_meta(message)
+            _, event_meta = self._resolve_effective_event(message)
         context = self._build_message_context(message, event_key=event_key, event_meta=event_meta)
 
         try: